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    posted a message on Bullying. A Plus to Society.
    Quote from Beastlyblu

    Even bullying or ostracizing somebody exists out there in the animal kingdom. It’s really a form of natural selection, or the term "survival of the fittest". If you’re a weak member of society or (for example) a wolf pack, the more socially advanced will move on without you, and thus, removing you from a forward advance. With humans, this absolute has been replaced with an arsenal of second chances, meaning that the weak-minded have a chance to redeem themselves later in life after being bruised and scarred. Counseling, friends, family, and mentors are all options you can choose to boost your morale and self-esteem back up. Unfortunately, the people who fall into the deep abyss of depression and the chasm of sadness tend not to live on much longer. They are emotionally weak, and thus the weak foundations of their psychological state might give away to the hate of the bullying. What I’m trying to get here is an extremely touchy subject, and it’s hard to explain well. My point is that, instead of focusing on how to eradicate the action bullying, we should just let it be. Promoting it would make society itself turn to the dark side, and it would just be silly and impractical to try and get rid of it. Face it, everyone’s been bullied at least once in their life, and if you’re (hopefully) still alive, you know it kind of sucks to be put down, but if you don’t let that kind of emotional bruise hurt you, you’ll be able to live further in life as a mentally stronger person.


    But it's not just the "weak" who are bullied.

    It's "nerds" who are bullied. Gays. Transgender people. Unattractive people. Anyone who doesn't fit in the mold of a "normal" person.

    You suggest we let people be bullied due to traits they have no power over, such as physical beauty?
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    posted a message on WOW. Overprotective or no?
    Quote from iJesusMC

    I would happily accept all these terms, it's not that harsh. HE'S 13. He's not 18. If he's 18, I can argue with it, but come on, HE'S 13. I'm not surprised his mom is overly concerns. You kids may not know. An iPhone costs a LOTTT of money, it's not a toy, his mom is teaching him how to use your phone/electronics carefully. All the rules seems legit when I was younger.

    I didn't even have text when I was 13. Not even close. I'm fine with it, because I have a phone that works, that's it. Spoiled brats can just GTFO.


    You would happily accept someone reading over all your text messages every night?

    Quote from JohnTheRipper
    You are not to utilize the device's installed cameras, and must rely solely on a sometimes-flaky method of human memories when remembering experiences.


    The rules state the kid must not take a "zillion" pictures with the phone. They do not state he may not use it it all.
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    posted a message on WOW. Overprotective or no?
    Quote from Creativityy

    The thing is, I guarantee if he told his mother he doesn't want her reading the texts between him and his girlfriend, she'd be fine with it. As long as he promises he isn't sexting her or breaking any other rules, she wouldn't have a problem with it. There's no way to prove it, but if the mother has any self-respect whatsoever, then it wouldn't be a problem.


    Excellent point.

    However if the kid says "Please don't read my texts between me and Bob", this will undoubtebly arouse suspicion. The kid's mother will become increasingly concerned. What Bob is a drug dealer? What if Bob is a stalker?

    Mom has full access to her kid's cell phone. She can read the texts between her son and Bob without her son ever knowing.

    It takes no small amount of trust and self-control to avoid doing something one is explicitly told not to do. Considering the strict phone rules Mom created, I doubt she has complete trust in her son.
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    posted a message on WOW. Overprotective or no?
    Quote from Creativityy

    About his parents knowing the password. I don't think that's a big deal. What does he have to hide in the phone? Even with me being completely out of the house, there's nothing on my phone that would be a huge deal with my parents.


    Let's suppose he gets a girlfriend. Do you think he'd be fine with his mother reading all their text messages after his phone is taken away every evening?
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    posted a message on WOW. Overprotective or no?
    Quote from SteevyT

    Am I the only one who thinks these rules are perfectly reasonable (aside from the turning it in every night thing)? I'm not sure why they had to be written out like that though, I thought it was common sense.


    Some of them are reasonable. Some of them are not.

    2. I will always know the password. This rule is invasive and slightly creepy. Seriously Mom, give the kid some privacy.

    6. If it falls into the toilet, smashes on the ground, or vanishes into thin air, you are responsible for the replacement costs or repairs. Mow a lawn, babysit, stash some birthday money. It will happen, you should be prepared. An iPhone 5 costs $200 USD with no extras (not counting wireless service charges). That's a lot of money for a thirteen year old to pay for something that may or may not be entirely his fault. Suppose someone pushes him and he drops the phone over a railing. Boom. There goes a large chunk of his savings. While he should definitely pay a fair portion of repair costs he shouldn't be forced to pay 100% of it. He's thirteen. He doesn't have a stable income.

    9. Do not text, email, or say anything to someone that you would not say out loud with their parents in the room. Censor yourself. This rule is also overly invasive. As I said above, let the kid have privacy. I get the feel that this mom is setting herself up for a full-scale rebellion as the kid ages, gets into relationships, etc. if she doesn't loosen her intrusive rules.

    13. Don't take a zillion pictures and videos. There is no need to document everything. Live your experiences. They will be stored in your memory for eternity. Few people have a picture-perfect memory. I honestly don't see the point of this rule.

    15. Download music that is new or classic or different than the millions of your peers that listen to the same exact stuff. Your generation has access to music like never before in history. Take advantage of that gift. Expand your horizons. Let the kid be himself. Don't shove opinions on music down his throat.

    Of course let's not forget the fact he has to turn in the phone every night. I didn't include my stance on it as I agree with what you said about it and I want to avoid redundancy.

    All the other rules I'm completely or somewhat fine with. It's those four that I find ridiculously restrictive and intrusive.
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    posted a message on WOW. Overprotective or no?
    Quote from Creativityy

    So you're going to assume he's some perfect little angel that hasn't done anything wrong in the past and deserves 100% freedom even though he's very young? Oh my gosh.


    Please don't make strawmen of my arguments.

    I don't assume this 13-year old is a "perfect little angel".

    I don't believe he deserves 100% freedom. As I said in my earlier post, some of the rules are reasonable, such as the one against sexting.
    Quote from Creativityy

    There's no way that an average kid would throw an iPhone 5 away because of some rules! I can't believe you all are not catching onto that! I guess my family must've not been as fortunate, because getting an iPhone 5 for christmas would be the best thing in the world if I were 13. My parents would woop my ass if I threw away and iPhone that they'd given me and I didn't have to work for. It's blowing my mind that you're siding with the kid on this one... it really is.


    I didn't see or read anything that said he intentionally threw away the iPhone due to the rules his mother created, can you please direct me to it?
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    posted a message on WOW. Overprotective or no?
    Quote from Creativityy

    Surprisingly enough, a year can make a big difference... just saying.

    Anyway, my parents were just like this kids. And they had all the good reason to do so! I was a trouble maker. If my parents didn't force it onto me, then I would take it as I could do whatever I wanted. It all matters on the child, really. Some kids follow the rules and would never do anything that their parents don't approve of, others would if it's not pounded into them senselessly.

    Judging from the article and video that was posted for us to review, the kid can't be trusted enough. The kid obviously doesn't have any respect for his parents and is willing to throw away a large chunk of it just because of the rules. If he would've just sat down with his parents like a mature kid, then he could've more than likely gotten MANY of the rules taken away. But instead, he was an idiot and wasted his chance at possibly getting a bit of breathing air from his parents.


    I watched the video and read the article. Both never explicitly say the kid has broken rules in the past, is disrespectful, and is immature. It seems to me like you're basing your argument off of assumptions, yet if I missed a part of the article/video please inform me so I can refute my statement.

    If I was that kid I'd be upset with some (not all) of those rules. Some of them are logical and reasonable yet others are invasive and somewhat creepy.
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