I ran away from home when I was younger... Been living alone since, a lady "adopted me" while I found a job (Graphic Design - Programming), after I found the job, I left her and got a fancy house at Moscow. Now I'm alone, again.
Are you parents O.K with it? Are her parents O.K with it? Don't even do it if either of them disagree slightly. You could end up with a baby or something.
Do you know what? Get "jiggy" with it at 20 or something. Or 21!
You will find yourself again... There is nothing wrong with you. You're not sick. This is completely normal... But to move on, you must learn to forgive.
You almost made me cry there, after everything you said. It's been a pleasure, thanks.
EDIT; **** dude... Really touched deep in my head with everything you said. All of you, thanks.
I had a pretty bad break up myself, but I ended the relationship because the guy was just awful. There were things he said and did I wont go on about, but I felt pretty shitty afterwards.
It didn't help that he took to stalking me, so I couldn't go out and make myself feel better not without him showing up and trying to impose himself on me. But I knew that getting over someone is going out, and just having fun.
Taking a yoga or dance class. Something that interests you to help you meet someone with your same interests.
Getting over someone, and finding another to fill your heart with doesn't mean going the whole nine yards. Just going out and getting to know other people fully. Get them comfortable enough to see how they treat you when they can take of that social mask.
I wish you good luck on your mission.
Thanks but I've learned that I'm pretty bad at it... I just can't forget about her, even after everything that she did to me -bad stuff- I just can't. Also, the fact that I live alone doesn't help at all.
You're welcome, and if I did come across as harsh, I apologize.
I do have some dislike of this topic, I help out at Wiki-answers for their breakup section, and it seems like no matter where I go work gets me. :dry.gif:
Men aren't all bad, women can be cruel and evil. They are more so during the 12-20 years, after their hormones are kicking up and they are in the finishing cycle of becoming adults. Then if they're still evil by 21, odds are they're going to stay so their whole lives.
Not that I am shining with grace. I might be just an awful person, but blinded by myself, so I can't see it.
Very rarely does the first relationship ever work out for very long, and I am happy that you actually felt bad about it not. That means you're human, and you feel.
At that point, it's past gender roles, and is something deeper.
Still, the hokey-pokey every two weeks isn't healthy. Do that in a few more years when you're more of an adult. Not that you're mentally ill or anything because of right now, it's just doing to your brain what drugs would do, as it releases those endorphins.
Thanks, It's been a pleasure to read what you think, really... Well, I wasn't that bad though... I started one week ago, I spent 5 Whole weeks crying like a ***** and feeling bad. And... About the thing, I think I could stop doing it slowly... Making me feel comfortable with "not doing it" that much again.
EDIT; I think I may be seeking for love... I may be seeking for a special person, and trying to forget about my ex.
There could be any number of attributing factors that could be the reason why you have a desire to do it so much. However, addiction is far different than a desire. I am not addicted, nor is my girlfriend, but pretty much every time we see each other (except on those certain five days of the month), we always do it. It's not a matter of addiction, it's just something we both enjoy.
So, before thinking this is an addiction, step back and really focus on why you are doing it. Are you trying to get over your ex? Do you just simply enjoy it? There is another factor that could be the reason, but that is of a much more personal nature and I don't think you would necessarily want to spill the beans on that if indeed it has happened to you, but it could also be a factor.
Trust me though, I have been on the bad end of heart ache before, I know where you are coming from. Having a desire to do "it" so much may not necessarily be an addiction, and it probably isn't. I have a friend who actually has this kind of addiction, and she literally has withdrawal symptoms from not satisfying it.
I don't think this is necessarily the best place to continue this, simply because of the nature of it and the fact we have a lot of children on these forums as well. If you want to PM and talk, I'm more than happy to and help you through it. Just remember though, don't try to diagnose yourself. If you really feel it is a problem and that you are sick, see a doctor about it. Until you hear it come from the mouth of a professional though, do not think you are sick, because it is not a sickness most likely.
At 16, yeah it's not good to be doing that many girls(although in 4 years, go for it :wink.gif: )
Actually, I'd even say that 16 is too early for serious relationships in general, but it's not a big deal I suppose.
OT: Is your username based off of these?
Well... I know it's not good at my age... But, what could I say? It's too good to leave it.
And... Yes, my username is based on my old Mr GameAndWatch devices... (:
...I don't think 16 year-olds should be going around gettin' jiggy with it...
With that out of the way, if you need the no-pants-dance every two weeks, something is wrong with you, and you should stop.
I could be wrong, and human males must HAVE TO STICK IT IN SOMETHING or their ego deflates like a balloon left out in the sun for too long.
A playboy lifestyle seems like fun, but will become empty and shallow as time goes on. It's better to try to aim for something more wholesome in your life other than a fling every two weeks.
My ex meant literally everything to me, she was my first kiss, my first girlfriend and both first timer's also... I wanted to stick with her for like... Forever, It's not like I'm a bad man, or anything. I treated her like a princess... How she showed her appreciation? Going out with another guy and breaking everything that made me happy, also, making fun of how bad I felt. It's not like only guys can be bad.
Girls come and go, nobody is ever going to fall in love and marry their first girlfriend. About the "thing" maybe its just your way of getting over her. Are you doing something bad? not necessarily, just make sure you dont accidentally have a baby.
Yeah... I "protect" myself, I'm not that stupid...
In my opinion, yeah I think that's kind of a bad thing, and I'd recommend stopping. In my eyes, we should just stick with one person, you know?
Is there any other sort of thing going on than just your breakup? Like anything else you're trying to drown out in this "thing"?
Not actually, I really decided to not have a serious relationship again... And, well, there's nothing else going on, thanks for the response.
Edit; The thing is sex... But I think I can't say that here.
Well... first of all, I need help of people that it's older, I don't think a 12 - 13 year's old will even understand the problem I'm having... It's been, like 6 Weeks since my girlfriend and I broke up... And I've already been with two other girls, (And, no, I don't mean "kissing" and that, I mean... Do 'That' thing (Also kissing and that stuff)) And I'm already planing to do it once again this Saturday with another girl, am I sick?
> After my ex broke up with me I cried for weeks and stuff, I felt bad, then I just decided to make it with all the girls I could... (Without being a douche bag, I'm sensitive and all that stuff).
Am I doing something bad or..? I think I'm addicted to "it" now. I literally can't be two weeks without doing it.
> Weird to ask here, but... Well, I don't have any place, my friends are too immature. I'm 16 and I already live alone, so... Need mature people that could also had a problem like this.
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I ran away from home when I was younger... Been living alone since, a lady "adopted me" while I found a job (Graphic Design - Programming), after I found the job, I left her and got a fancy house at Moscow. Now I'm alone, again.
Well, that's a catchy thing to do. Find another one.
EDIT; I really, really should fix my info... >.<
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My mistake... I'm 16, lol.
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Wow... People matters about what's legal and what is not? lol. I don't care if it's legal or not... :tongue.gif:
I live alone... And, I know that, lol.
You almost made me cry there, after everything you said. It's been a pleasure, thanks.
EDIT; **** dude... Really touched deep in my head with everything you said. All of you, thanks.
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Thanks but I've learned that I'm pretty bad at it... I just can't forget about her, even after everything that she did to me -bad stuff- I just can't. Also, the fact that I live alone doesn't help at all.
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Thanks, It's been a pleasure to read what you think, really... Well, I wasn't that bad though... I started one week ago, I spent 5 Whole weeks crying like a ***** and feeling bad. And... About the thing, I think I could stop doing it slowly... Making me feel comfortable with "not doing it" that much again.
EDIT; I think I may be seeking for love... I may be seeking for a special person, and trying to forget about my ex.
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This is like... The best response, ever.
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Well... I know it's not good at my age... But, what could I say? It's too good to leave it.
And... Yes, my username is based on my old Mr GameAndWatch devices... (:
My ex meant literally everything to me, she was my first kiss, my first girlfriend and both first timer's also... I wanted to stick with her for like... Forever, It's not like I'm a bad man, or anything. I treated her like a princess... How she showed her appreciation? Going out with another guy and breaking everything that made me happy, also, making fun of how bad I felt. It's not like only guys can be bad.
Also, thanks for the comment
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I really appreciate the help
Yeah... I "protect" myself, I'm not that stupid...
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Not actually, I really decided to not have a serious relationship again... And, well, there's nothing else going on, thanks for the response.
Edit; The thing is sex... But I think I can't say that here.
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> After my ex broke up with me I cried for weeks and stuff, I felt bad, then I just decided to make it with all the girls I could... (Without being a douche bag, I'm sensitive and all that stuff).
Am I doing something bad or..? I think I'm addicted to "it" now. I literally can't be two weeks without doing it.
> Weird to ask here, but... Well, I don't have any place, my friends are too immature. I'm 16 and I already live alone, so... Need mature people that could also had a problem like this.
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Practice simple stuff, like that... A tip, don't use the eraser to make shadows (Or your dirty fingers) It makes the drawn look very Dirty... So, some info and websites that will totally help you progress: Painting tutorials in general Darwing tutorials A curse for drawing (It's a lot of reading, i suggest the other one)