It starts to lag so much I had 25 gigs dedicated to the server and it says that it can’t keep up running 300 or something ticks behind also people who are far away can’t connect to the server like 80 miles away 1.14 and I start the server with the run file
How many people do connect? Which OS are you using? Which storage are you using for the world files? For 1-5 people my 1.14.4 server with 2GB Heap memory and i5 cpu is definitely enough, but I store the world on SSD (they are pretty cheap these days).