I can see why men are attracted to women, but I don't see how women could be attracted to men. We are defiantly not as good looking as women are and in general women also have better personalities than us as well. The only reason I could see is hormones making them think a certain way my mind just cannot even begin to fathom.
I can see why men are attracted to women, but I don't see how women could be attracted to men. We are defiantly not as good looking as women are and in general women also have better personalities than us as well. The only reason I could see is hormones making them think a certain way my mind just cannot even begin to fathom.
Then again, perhaps that's MY hormones talking.
I'ts quite normal for guys not to understand why would women be attracted to men.
For me however, it's quite odd. I can't relate to anything said in this thread.
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To define "What is attractive", you need to delve into a lot of subconscious thinking and really begin to figure out what is consciously derived as attractive, as opposed to unappealing. This is especially hard to do considering you've got the whole "one man's trash is another man's treasure" aspect going on here.
For example, some people find overweight others to be attractive. Some people like tattoos, or others like a partner from a specific race or geographical area.
If you spend your life thinking, "How can I be more attractive to X person", you're gonna have a bad time. No, really, you are. Don't try to be attractive to a person, just try to be you. I know, it sounds really cheesy, right? But think of it this way. If you spend a considerable amount of time to be "attractive" to a particular person (or groups of persons if you're into that), you're most likely going to be acting in a way that you naturally wouldn't. That will plant the seed of, "I always need to act this way" or that person/s may not like you anymore, or find you attractive.
Be a good person and live a good life. If you want to get in shape, do it. If you want to dye your hair, do it. If you want to work out, why not? Or if you don't.. just don't die.
I met my soon to be husband in college and, while I found him immensely attractive (6'2", thin, long beautiful blonde hair [Think: Thor], hugs that could melt the heart of any ice queen), we didn't click. Five years later through a random plucking of fate, we got together and, well, we're getting married in December. He and I had both grown as people and had refined ourselves to be pretty awesome adults. We have *a lot* in common, we talk a lot, and we make each other laugh. To me, those are very attractive traits. While I find him physically very appealing, I'm not going to say his physical being had a lot to do with me falling in love with him. It helps, yes. I believe humans are inherently shallow (as are every other species on the planet), I don't believe that unless you breed this to some strange level, that physical attractiveness is a deal breaker in most cases.
Be natural. Be good. Treat people right and you're going to find out you're a lot more attractive than you think. Smile, it makes your eyes light up, and anybody, male or female can appreciate a good smile.
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What girls look in us guys is someone who cares and loves...
Someone who won't break up with them after a week. Love is human nature.
Think differently.
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Sire I inquire as I do with most, but do you mean to gloat? For is it truly such a tire to reply to the host with but a simple QUOTE?
Honestly, I think the guide to understanding women to men and men to women is hidden in the terms and conditions. The world may never know. It also may be why so terms and conditions are short and others have 400 pages.
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For it is foretold that on the great day of rustling, no mortals shall live in fear
It's weird. We're disgusting pigs that mainly want women for sex. Yet they still love us.
Speak for yourself.I hate blanket statements like that, even though I'm sure held it to be of the most innocent intentions, it doesn't make it any less wrong.
To summarize what I was saying is that I don't know. A lot of girls flirt with me I guess (smile, mess with things you have with you, hit you)
Its really up to the girl themselves. Mostly (I think) you have to balance each other out, like one person is more easily angered, while the other is maybe more calm and serene.
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The question for me on this topic isn't the why, it's mostly just the how, as is the question. Girls, if they knew they weren't explicitly beautiful and stunning (in my opinion) and we didn't explain it all the time, would probably be asking the same question about themselves.
Essentially it's backwards. Girls are attracted to Males (if they are), like we're attracted to them (if we are). If you think Guys are unattractive, you found out only that you aren't homosexual.
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4) Wrestlers/MMA fighters- I'm not so much into the sensitive type. I prefer my guys tough and rough, nice and manly.
But-
8)Manners- this is also a huge deal breaker. I like for my parents to approve of the guy I'm seeing. If the guy can't show proper manner and respect, I'll most likely stop liking them immediately and never invite them over again.
Also, there's nrhing better than a Guy who keeps his body in shape.
But-
9)Dorks- I need a nerdy guy. I can't deal with too athletic guys who only care about sports. I need a guy I can game with all night.
So a bad boy with manners, and a wrestler/fighter that doesn't care too much about being athletic? Contradiction much?
Then again, perhaps that's MY hormones talking.
I'ts quite normal for guys not to understand why would women be attracted to men.
For me however, it's quite odd. I can't relate to anything said in this thread.
For example, some people find overweight others to be attractive. Some people like tattoos, or others like a partner from a specific race or geographical area.
If you spend your life thinking, "How can I be more attractive to X person", you're gonna have a bad time. No, really, you are. Don't try to be attractive to a person, just try to be you. I know, it sounds really cheesy, right? But think of it this way. If you spend a considerable amount of time to be "attractive" to a particular person (or groups of persons if you're into that), you're most likely going to be acting in a way that you naturally wouldn't. That will plant the seed of, "I always need to act this way" or that person/s may not like you anymore, or find you attractive.
Be a good person and live a good life. If you want to get in shape, do it. If you want to dye your hair, do it. If you want to work out, why not? Or if you don't.. just don't die.
I met my soon to be husband in college and, while I found him immensely attractive (6'2", thin, long beautiful blonde hair [Think: Thor], hugs that could melt the heart of any ice queen), we didn't click. Five years later through a random plucking of fate, we got together and, well, we're getting married in December. He and I had both grown as people and had refined ourselves to be pretty awesome adults. We have *a lot* in common, we talk a lot, and we make each other laugh. To me, those are very attractive traits. While I find him physically very appealing, I'm not going to say his physical being had a lot to do with me falling in love with him. It helps, yes. I believe humans are inherently shallow (as are every other species on the planet), I don't believe that unless you breed this to some strange level, that physical attractiveness is a deal breaker in most cases.
Be natural. Be good. Treat people right and you're going to find out you're a lot more attractive than you think. Smile, it makes your eyes light up, and anybody, male or female can appreciate a good smile.
I know, how can anyone be attracted to this?
Depends on what he's packin.
Someone who won't break up with them after a week. Love is human nature.
Think differently.
Sire I inquire as I do with most, but do you mean to gloat? For is it truly such a tire to reply to the host with but a simple QUOTE?
Don't say that, I'm single and I'm proud! (Spongebob reference. xD :P)
Speak for yourself.I hate blanket statements like that, even though I'm sure held it to be of the most innocent intentions, it doesn't make it any less wrong.
Its really up to the girl themselves. Mostly (I think) you have to balance each other out, like one person is more easily angered, while the other is maybe more calm and serene.
Essentially it's backwards. Girls are attracted to Males (if they are), like we're attracted to them (if we are). If you think Guys are unattractive, you found out only that you aren't homosexual.
But-
But-
So a bad boy with manners, and a wrestler/fighter that doesn't care too much about being athletic? Contradiction much?
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