I've been playing MC for v about 10 years on and off. I have a 2 week old realm on an infinite map. cords on. pvp off. This realm will be up for a long time. We play daily. No rules except just be respectful of other people's things. Aka just being an adult. There are no builds at the spawn you will have to fend for yourself. It isnt hard the world usually just stays on easy. So If you can't handle getting supplies and surviving the first few nights..... well maybe this isn't the kind of survival game for you.
Message me and add me as a friend if you want to play